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2010.08.11

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ai

These might be worth a look!

http://spinshell.tv/report/?expecting1#page3

http://spinshell.tv/report/?expecting2#page3

Donna

Do you not need to see an OB/GYN for birth control prescriptions? Or are Japanese woman less likely to use hormonal birth control? That was my main reason to start seeing a gynecologist.

I haven't seen it, but wasn't there a recent Japanese television show about a gynecologist?

I'm not sure if stirrups and "slide your bottom down" are any better than that chair.

I'm trying to separate visits to my doctor from advice I read/got from friends, and I'm not sure my doctor advice was all that thorough. I remember reading to avoid soft cheeses and sushi because of alleged risk of lysteria--now apparently women are told to avoid lunch meat as well--but I'm not sure I remember my doctor specifically saying that.

kat

When I got pregnant in Japan the first clinic I went to had one of those chairs and I got the biggest surprise of my life - it totally freaked me out. The clinic where I ended up giving birth had none of that craziness and the midwives were fantastic in providing information. I definitely think Japanese women get pregnancy information from other friends/family and most of the mags are commercial - which was fun when looking for baby items and just for a laugh in general. I actually hated the book, 'what to expect when expecting' because I think it has too much information. I think a weekly update on a fetus's progress was enough for me especially since I was totally obsessed with googling everything in my frist trimester and it turned me into a nervous wreck. The best advice I got when pregnant was to skip the pregnancy books and go straight to baby care books/videos. I think just being a healthy person and staying active are the best things you can do for a growing baby. A lot of babies around the world get born without their mothers doing absolutely anything! I think we all worry too much about something we can't really control. Just my two yen's worth :)

Sertyan

What an informative piece on pregnancy in Japan, it's really quite different! It's the first time I've read about the Japanese gynecological exam chair, hehe. And the fact that the pregnancy mags are illustrated cartoons. I have blog-lined your blog for almost a year already and this is me coming out from lurking mode :)
Congratulations on your pregnancy.

Houdini

Have you seen the magazines Pre-mo and Baby-mo? While they aren't as great as some of the things from "back home" they are pretty good. The thing I liked the most about both are the occasional sections for dads. My husband really felt clueless while getting ready for the first baby and finding good information in Japanese for him was tough!

Amy

Ai thanks, those are great resources and I actually mentioned them both in an earlier post. In this post though I was specifically talking about the lack of Japanese-language information, sorry if that wasn't clear.

Donna, the birth control pill is not widely used by Japanese women, and was only approved here about 10 years ago. Doctors still know little about it (I actually had one doctor refuse to prescribe it for me) and most women are afraid of it.

And I think my description of the chair didn't do it justice, because it's a million times worse than the exam table and stirrups!

Kat, your clinic was actually second on my list of places to check out! I never went because I liked the first place I visited so much, but hearing about your midwives makes me wonder if I chose the wrong place. I like most of my midwives but they do give some odd advice and there are a few I really don't get on with.

I actually really like "What to Expect", but you're right that an overload of information is not necessarily a good thing. I'm not much of a worrier though, so really like having all the info. I'll take your advice and start checking out baby care books and videos. Do you have any recommendations?

Sertyan, thanks!

Houdini, I've flipped through both and wasn't impressed. Maybe I should have paid more attention, or maybe I just happened upon particularly bad issues, but I found them to be the same as all the rest. On your advice I'll have another look though, especially Baby-mo.

illahee

i actually rather like the exam chair....

and the last part amused me, because i did NOT give birth in one of those things! LOL

Things to do in York

This is the first time i saw a Japanese pregnancy magazine and I learned a lot of different things. I was amused by that Japanese gynecological exam chair. :D Looks like you are having an exciting pregnancy. Good luck!

Fiddlerchick

Great post as usual! and “natsukashii...well, not really....That reminded me of my angst-filled experience trying to get access to contraception in Japan and having to go to thee different countries to accomplish that. I may yet one day get around to publishing that debacle if I can rescue it from the near-extinct floppy diskettes the original drafts are stored on, or if I still have the hard copy around somewhere.

Oh, the frustration of trying to get information about stuff there (and here when we’re trying to find out about something there)! And the cutsey/cartooniness of practically everything.....

joeinvegas

Looks like an opportunity there for a good informative web site. Are you up to it? (would be a chnge from food)

Elise

That post is totally funny!
I'm pregnant with my first child and was in Korea for the first half of my pregnancy and now I'm in China for the second half. I got conflicting advice from doctors on both sides of the Yellow Sea. But for the weird advice and superstitions, the Chinese win hands down... My doctor is cool though, she said: 'just do what you do in your own country.' I guess she's used to have Western patients with Chinese husbands trying to make sense of all the Chinese weird stuff........

Sara in Austin

I found this post both funny and alarming, but I guess it works given that Canada's infant mortality is around 50% greater than Japan's (depending on the source). I won't even mention the U.S. - very sad.

I am surprised that in your mention of nutritional concerns you didn't mention prenatal vitamins/minerals. While it is always best to get vitamins and minerals from food, I thought the use of prenatal vitamins was pretty much ubiquitous in first world countries.

becca

we don't use prenatal vitamins here in the UK. I was pregnant and gave birth to my daughter in Japan..was quite surprised by that chair thing too! found the curtain very disconcerting! didn't enjoy the transvaginal scans much! I was constantly being told to not ride my bike and to wear socks (even though it was humidly hot sweltering summer) ...not following such advice didn't seem to do me and my daughter any harm though!
now pregnant in the uk and it's quite a different ball game... i quite miss the dr telling me to be careful not to gain any more weight..they don't weigh you at all here..though there is hordes of information about general pregnancy guidelines.
will you be giving birth in a hospital? are there any midwife run places near you? there was a great one near us in rural wakayama-ken.
ganbatte!

Gina Sawamura

This is a great post. Both my kids were born in Japan. You are right about the lack of information from doctors and medical staff though. I did get all my advice from English sources - Miriam Stoppard and the like - lots of info which can be quite alarming for a first time mum-to-be. The lack of info for dads is even more worrying as it seems to justify the traditional belief that this is not their territory and they should back off. Hats off to your hub for wanting to be more involved. My Miriam Stoppard bk had a full page photo of a father and new born on the inside cover and no cutsie cartoons!

The Chair! I remember that. The weirdest feeling is when the seat drops down and you are suspended with your legs in the air. I expected to be tilted back and legs akimbo, but no support in the under carriage area was a surprise! lol!

Congratulations on your pregnancy.

Miki-pon

I learned loads of stuff that I should do and shouldn't do during pregnancy when I was at my junior and high schools. I think that is why you may not see so much information in those magazines.... (I did not know there are not so much information around. That sounds totally not cool. My aunt and uncles are doctors, so I think I will be all right, though.)

In Japan, many people suggests to keep your belly warm, though. (Since it is still middle of summer, I think you do not need to worry that yet.)

Check those sites:
http://www.tetuzuki.net/life/childbirth.html
http://www.premama.jp/

I hope these sites can provide you some more information.

I heard that many hospitals are providing classes for expecting mothers and fathers, and some of them are especially for men. So, check those classes, too, if you are interested.

Congratulations! Enjoy! And most of all, take it easy!

Catherine

J'adore la chaise du gynecologue.....

kat

Amy, I totally recommend the Sears Baby Book - it is hefty, big and has heaps of great advice. I still use it when Jake is sick. It definitely leans towards attachment parenting, which tends to be more natural in Japan because co-sleeping is the norm etc. I think it is a good idea to watch and read everything then it prepares you with all the tools and then you'll figure out what is useful for you guys and what is not. Some videos we watched were Happiest Baby on the Block - we didn't end up swaddling hardly at all, but used a swing in the early days and the shushing thing was great! I also watched Dunstan Baby Language, but I dunno whether that was useful. A lot of people love the Baby Whisperer but I really didn't like her, her book or her suggestions. As I said though it is good to read/watch everything with an open mind because when you are about to lose your mind taking care of a newborn you are just about willing to try anything!!! Oh and I think Iona McNab is still in Japan, isn't she??? The only prenatal classes we took were first aid and her breastfeeding class and it was fantastic!! I had absolutely no preconceptions about bfeeding, but here I am nearly three years later and we are mostly done (Jake still asks at night every now and again), but it was a great way for us to stay really close and connected since I went back to work when he was six months old. Anyway don't want to ramble - BTW your road trip to Chiba looked like a great way to enjoy your final days as a 'two-some'!!!!

Sara

Amy, has it been hard to find maternity clothing?

Amy

Illahee, you do not!! And I'm not giving birth in one either (touch wood).

Fiddlerchick, I'd love to read about the birth control debacle! I actually had a doctor refuse to prescibe birth control pills, but this was shortly after they were approved in Japan and he might not have gotten the memo.

Joe, what an epic job! NOT up to it.

Elise, what a cool doctor. My midwife is somewhat lenient that way, but I get the impression she's rare.

Sara, women are starting to take prenatal supplements, but they are definitely not the norm here. Expectant moms are supposed to meat all their nutritional needs through diet alone, which is too bad because I've never met a Japanese woman who didn't have bad morning sickness for at least part of her pregnancy, and it's hard to get enough nutrition when you can't even eat!

Becca, my doctor keeps the curtain open for me, but I've experienced it elsewhere- do not like! There are tonnes of midwifery clinics in Tokyo, thank goodness. If everything goes to plan I'll be giving birth in a great big tub attended by a couple of midwives, no doctor in sight.

Gina, I agree about the chair- the tilt and splayed legs I can handle (the doctor needs to get in there, after all) but the floating butt was a shock.

Miki-pon, I learned a lot about pregnancy in school too, but it seems strange to have to rely on that- people forget what they learn, and medical information becomes outdated. Oh, and I'm a haramaki fan, just not in the summer!

Thanks Kat, I'll definitely check out that book- attachment parenting is where I'm leaning too. Iona McNab has unfortunately returned to Australia, but I have taken her first aid class and have been to a LLL meeting, both extremely useful.

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